Know this:
1. Adoption is in breach of numerous points of the us’s rights of a child.
2. Adoption laws world wide prevent access to birth and health records.
3. As an adult adoptee I am perpetually treated as a child in the eye of the law and there is no Avenue to dissolve or discharge adoption even if you have been estranged and in reunion.
4. Falsified birth records state the the adoptive parents are biological parents after the original birth certificate is marked null and void.
5. In blended families who choose to adopt their partners children where previous partners may have passed on. Adoption removes any acknowledgment of the deceased parent on their birth or deaths or certificate
But of course continue to believe your unicorn belief in adoption at the expense of “your” child.
I think it is amazing how on one hand people recognise the harm done when babies are separated from their mothers, but adoption is a good thing. You can’t have both. I though the woke community would already know this!
I’m now at a place where I don’t compare myself with others. At least that’s what I try and tell myself. It’s extremely difficult for me because my basic programming from childhood triggers a type of emotional cancer where I scream, clutching at an idealistic perspective of engagement, employment and related expectations. I get so wound up my brain shirt circuits leaving me emotional drained and disoriented. We shouldn’t be expected to perform on the same level as others. I just try and leave my tormented ego at the door in certain situations. Otherwise I just avoid them. It’s not about us not being able to connect with others on their level. It’s more about normal people not acknowledge our trauma and their ability to connect with us on our level. Childhood emotional trauma needs to be given the respect it deserves.